Our victory trophy for potty training 3 kids is in sight, although we're still in the phase of occasional accidents with our two years old twins. F(male) and G(female) are just a few weeks past their 2nd birthday and they are pretty much trained. Their older brother (E) was fully trained by 2.5 (or 26.5 months if you want to get all technical).
So.. I don't have any tips for actual potty training here, because I think that is something left to books and experts. I am an "early" training fan and followed advice from
Diaper-Free Before 3 by Dr. Jill Lekovic and
Potty Train in 3 Days by Lois Kleint. But, what I will offer is some kind of off-the-wall, out-of-norm tips that I realized I was doing that others didn't think to do, hence the reason to share!
Oh, and I won't take credit for thinking of all of this. Some ideas I picked up, or arrived at while chatting with others.
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| Our couch ready for another accident. |
#1 - Cover your bottom couch cushions with a twin waterproof mattress cover, tucking excess in the back or underneath. Then cover with a twin sheet that matches your decor. This is easy to remove when there are accidents and you won't be as psychotic about the kids messing up your couch. My husband wants to take some (or all of) credit on this one.
#2 - Purchase multiple seats for those little tooshies, including a
folding seat for public restrooms, a
travel potty for your car, a cool
convertible seat for your big toilet at home (<---pictured), and definitely a
potty chair (or two if you have multiple kids). If you don't think that gear will help, it
will. There's nothing worse than trying to get your little (apprehensive) boy to balance over a huge toilet, clinging to you and then his wee-wee goes astray because you can't help hold it down and he pees down your leg. Kids are scared of big potties, and gear can help make it safer and less scary for them until they are big enough to stand or balance on their own. Ok, this one's not too unusual I suppose, unless you didn't know about the convertible seat for the big toilet, credit to my cousins Shannon and Abe!
#3 Travel potty liners are a parent's best friend. I don't use the Kalencom Potette but I LOVE the
liners with the little absorbent pad at the bottom complete with cute printed turtles with umbrellas. Basically this is a modified plastic grocery bag, but is great for disposing of waste quickly and for keeping your potty seat clean.
#4 Build a kit separate from your normal diaper bag. You'll need to grab it fast when your little one announces they have to go. Mine is pictured above and includes the folding seat, extra training pants, extra clothes, the Potette liners, extra underwear, and the last most important thing, the incentive treat, Tic Tacs. (more about that on #5). I am ashamed I don't have my
Kushies waterproof training pants or my
Bummis pull-on covers pictured, but they were all being laundered, but are usually in the kit. We only use the pull-ups for super emergencies and when we will be in the car for extended time or when we know the kids might fall asleep.
#5 Incentives on the go. If you are in to incentives for potty success, you need to keep prize giving while out,
especially when out with all of the distractions. This is the precise reason why I didn't use sticker charts as it would be hard to provide instant praise when away from home. We use "happy chocolates" (m&ms) at home, but I didn't want to carry around melty chocolate, even if it is encased in hard candy shell. Insert, Tic Tacs... they are smaller, lighter and extra special when out and about.